Shoeonhead and Male Loneliness

I used to watch Shoe back in the day.  At some point she turned socialist and I stopped watching.  She still has good things to say about some stuff and still makes good points.  But I dislike the whole anti-capitalism thing.

Anyway, she made this video below and not only do I believe she is correct but the response to it she talks about shows you the cause and effect.

Are men lonely?  Is there a serious issue with male suicide and many other negative stats? ABSOLUTELY.

How did this happen?  Feminism.  What was a call for equal rights over decades morphed into men are bad and then it changed into it’s final form, we don’t need men at all.  Don’t believe me?  Watch Shoe’s video as she highlights all the women who told her exactly just that in those very words.

And anyone who says it’s “toxic masculinity” is part of the problem.  What do you think that phrase was designed to do?  And no, it’s not because men don’t show their emotions.  Anyone saying that  (and I hear women say it all the time) does not at all understand. We don’t show them because we don’t want to. Why don’t we want to?  Because we are built not to.  When sh!t hits the fan and very hard things, sometimes terrible things, need to be done if you are crying you are not getting done what needs to be and when a women sees a man cry she loses respect for him.   Women have the luxury of being emotional, men do not.  And NOTHING is wrong with that at all.

But, feminists made a critical miscalculation.  What hurts men, hurts women, hurts men, hurts women.  We are not islands, we are 2 halves of a whole and we need each other. And we each are made for certain roles.  Men are made for sacrifice, women for nurturing.  Both are absolutely critical.  Those are indeed social constructs but only because they are biological realities.  A man will straight up run at something deadly to defend his family and often others.  And when he is wounded, broken and battered due to that, a woman will run to that man and as he saved her, she will save him and nurture his wounds. This is the way of the world.

For every lonely man, their is a lonely woman.  You can tell each other you hate each other all you want but it does not negate the need we have for one another and denying that is how we get here where men and women are almost incapable of working together for happiness.

So we can understand we need each other, respect each other and live happily together creating families and harmony as has been the case for all of time prior to the last 30 years.  Or society essentially ends in cats, box wine or beer and porn.   Your choice.

• This topic was modified 9 months ago by Vknid.
• This topic was modified 9 months ago by Vknid.